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Usually, on our website, we rely on examples from the world of football, today's article will be based on Stephen Cavey's best-selling book 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
This is a book that is worth reading in its entirety, but if you don't do it, we will present you some tips based on it so that you can use them and make your dreams come true!
1) BE PROACTIVE!
YOU CREATE YOUR REALITY INSTEAD OF WAITING FOR WHAT TO HAPPEN!
There are two approaches to life: proactive and reactive.
Reactive is a way of life in which you passively wait for what will happen and then complain and look for faults for the fact that you do not have what you dream of.
The proactive way of life is completely the opposite because it involves focusing every day on what you can do to get closer to your goals!
Every day, step by step.
Instead of complaining that you don't have offers from top clubs yet, focus on what you can do, train every day and do everything that will bring you closer to your goal, and don't wait for a miracle.
2) HAVE A GOAL AND DIRECT EVERY ACTION TOWARDS ITS ACHIEVEMENT
This may be the key point for you.
Find your goal and in this case it will probably be to become a pro soccer player.
Then make sure that your actions every day are aimed at achieving this goal.
Many of you go to training every day but you don't really know why.
You train as an alibi to stay busy and these trainings do nothing and do not bring you closer to your goal.
Plan your training so that both its content and intensity bring you closer to your goal.
The same with other activities, if you go for tests, prepare to be selected, not just to take them!
The same with building contacts.
Do not write to agents or clubs if you are not ready, do not have video materials or simply do not have a club, even at a low level, because it will not bring any results!
3) THINK IN WIN WIN
Start thinking about how to make clubs and agents want to work with you and make your skills valuable to them!
Become a player who has such skills that when the club signs a contract with you, it will be happy to pay you a high salary because from the moment you sign the contract it will know that both you and the club will benefit from it!
4) TRY TO UNDERSTAND WHAT THE WORLD OF FOOTBALL EXPECTS FROM YOU AND THEN GIVE IT TO HIM!
It usually happens that we want something and we focus primarily on ourselves and what we want, forgetting that we live in this world among other people and in order to achieve something we have to get along with them because they also want something from the world.
You want to be a football player and play in a big club, but you don't even try to understand the coach what he expects from you on the pitch because you focus on yourself!
The trainer criticizes you and instead of analyzing and drawing conclusions and then doing the work during training, you usually get offended and don't even listen to what he wants to tell you!
First, try to understand the expectations of others so that they can listen to you and understand your expectations.
5) DON'T BE AFRAID TO COOPERATE WITH OTHERS AND LEARN FROM THEM!
Many people think that they are competing with the whole world to achieve success.
Remember that the only person you are competing with is yourself because if you are good enough you will always win.
Have you ever thought about asking them to train together and learn something from them, instead of criticizing other players from the team with whom you are fighting for a place in the team?
Remember that you can only learn from those who are higher than you!
Look for opportunities to cooperate, not compete with each other!
As a summary of these habits and tips, I can add that if you start using these tips and over time they become your habits, they will definitely help you win, but not everything will always go as you planned and be prepared for this.
The meaning of life is not to win all the time.
The meaning of life is this path to success and fighting for it every day!
Learn to enjoy every day you fight for your dreams!
If you have read the article to the end, thank you for it and now start using these habits, leave a like and write in a comment which point is the most important to you.
Remember to read it at least twice a week to constantly program your mind with these habits
